I still have a bad connotation when I hear “blog”.
Not sure why.
Probably because I was raised to think any kind of focus on oneself was selfish and bad.
But I’ve wanted to make some major changes with my life, I enjoy introspection and writing, and a kind of daily looking-forward-to-this activity has been helpful to me in the past.
Up ahead: this picture was included in the ‘first post’ template. I want to think it’s stupid and way too obvious for a metaphor…but I kind of like it. Guilty, embarrassed face. So, I’m keeping it.
What this blog will be about:
A daily-ish recounting of:
- my journey out of entertainment addiction and into self-control
- the experience of getting back into daily exercise
- inner psychological experience and history in relation to the above
- thoughts about the world and life (eye roll)
I am not entirely happy with my life. I do have a lot to be grateful for (the fact I have the means to sit down and write a freaking blog shows this), but I am not happy, I think I could be happier, and I think I know how to get there (or at least, begin that journey).
So come along for the ride!
So I want to be happy.
Do you? Don’t we all? What does that even mean? How does it look like for people?
But the world is (feels?) pretty shit right now. Or…there’s this kind of impending doom. The climate is heating up faster than expected. Everyone hates each other. Nuclear apocalypse could happen at any moment. The rich get richer. Yada yada yada.
Sure, there’s a lot of good going on…but for me, the long-term trajectory, at least from an ecological and economic standpoint, seems pretty scary.
Gah so many thoughts.
Where to start?
So…I want to be happy, but my happiness is hindered by my anxiety about the world situation. So…part of my life (part of this blog) will also be about how I am trying to ‘get involved’, and what ‘getting involved’ means to me. Because, even though I’m just a spec, and probably won’t cause any change (and everything is hopeless, blah blah blah), I feel like, for my own self, I’ll be able to rest easier feeling like I have a small understanding of the world situation (instead of being continuously shocked every time I come out of my hole of entertainment addiction, look at the national, state, and local news, feel immense guilt I haven’t been doing anything about it, or feel a kind of despair that things will never change).
To get to happiness, I have to -> START A BLOG -> stop my addiction, and that -> gives me more time while feeling more self-control and better about myself -> enables me to get more involved -> the world is (or isn’t) saved as a result.
The daily action of writing, of anticipating who might be reading, of anticipating how this transformation will look, of keeping myself accountable because I just spent $35.88 and don’t want that to go to waste – yes, that is why I’m starting a blog.
Will a blog help, hinder, or no-effect an addiction? If I ever stop writing, you’ll have your answer.
I don’t want to stop, though. I really, really would like to change my whole sense of myself. And that’s going to take a lot. It’s going to take…
One moment by moment.
Ha. ha. ha. (“Roll credits!” as the YouTube channel CinemaSins would say).
So that’s it. That’s why I’m here. I can see the change. You can see the change.
We all probably die via ecological/society meltdown anyway.
But the hope (gotta have hope!) is inner and outer success.
The hope is I change. And personal change will happen if I touch on certain things (at least that’s my belief, my hope). I try to be a realist, but I can’t seem to get rid of certain elements of romantic, utopian vision and hope for myself and the world.
At the heart of this (‘this’ being the key to success), I think, is… hmmm…
- the successful creation of new habitual actions that circumvent and/or positively respond to triggers / trigger behavior
- the ability to stay present with painful emotions and physiological symptoms as a result of the processing of those emotions (and withdrawal symptoms)
So, this is my first post to get my bearings for this blog. The next will be Day 1.
So it is.